The reasons some men start up a relationship with ladies can be quite confusing. Sometimes he may give off the vibe that he wants something serious, other times he may just want to flirt or just want a hook-up with you.
He may just think you’re cool to hang out with and would want your type of vibe around as often as he can afford. Other times, he could just like you for your brilliance and ability to impart knowledge in him.
As varying as the reasons may be, they could also be genuine and may not necessarily mean he likes you so much. So before you run off to go buy that wedding dress, know what he wants, first.
It can be a chore trying to figure out what particularly a guy wants especially if he’s not so expressive. You could easily ask if you’re brave enough but for the faint-hearted, we’ll opt for just watching and checking out for signs.
However, signs could be easily misinterpreted when our emotions are involved as well. When you like him right back or even more than you can imagine, you could read a simple smile as a proposal.
In this article, we will share some really helpful points on signs that he indicates he’s not just flirting but wants something really serious with you… Something like a relationship.
Here Are Some Signs He Wants You To Be His Girlfriend
1. He Chases You
We know a guy chases whomever he wants something to do with and it mustn’t be a serious relationship. However, a guy would not chase a lady for so long if he hadn’t genuine intentions for her and them. Especially knowing that there are many fishes in the sea.
For a woman he has seen a lot of prospects in, he could go through lengths to secure a relationship with her. So, when a guy chases you for long without relenting, he really is serious about having something beautiful with you.
2. He Actually Let’s Go Of Past Relationship Baggage
If he really wants you in his corner, he wouldn’t want anything to disrupt the process, therefore, he will let go of all the baggage that could be detrimental.
He would cut off ties from exes, end flings and friends with benefits or at least take a break from them to concentrate on you. He could even delete dating sites from his devices so as to focus on you.
When he does all these without flinching and maybe without even being asked, it means he is quite serious about having a relationship with you.
3. His Actions Are Consistent
When a guy is consistently showing up for you and doing things without complaining, he really likes you. A guy who wants something really serious with you would not start something today and not be able to continue tomorrow.
If you notice that he isn’t consistently recreating his actions, it’s best to move on and not hold on to the probability of something. A sign of unseriousness is inconsistency and no man who is serious about wanting a relationship would be inconsistent in and with his actions.
4. His Cares And Affections Come Naturally
A guy who truly likes you would naturally care about you. He would ask all the right questions to know if you’re faring well and what to do to help. To him, your welfare is very important to him. If you’ve eaten or taken your medication when you’re ill is not just for formalities. Picking up snacks or basics on his way to see you is his way of showing that he is quite interested in making you happy.
Any man intentional about your wellbeing and consistently shows it, is quite serious about wanting a relationship with you.
5. He Is Interested In Knowing Your Demons Along With Your Sweet Side
Not only does this intentional man care about if you’re faring well or not, but he also puts in extra effort to know about your past and all. He is interested in knowing what makes you scared and what you love.
He also asks about who broke your heart in the past and what you detest. The guy intentionally tries to break whatever wall you may have built and he won’t be sorry about that. He shows his interests not so he could use the information against you in the future but so he could understand you better and know how to treat you better.
6. He Includes You In His Plans And Often Invites You To Join Him
When a man really likes you, he adds you to his plans. He would want to spend as much time with you as he can and so tries to make it happen. The man plans hangouts with you in mind and even if you can’t make it, he keeps you updated about his plans.
He doesn’t hide his plans and decisions from you especially when he knows it could make or mar his plans to date you. Naturally, when you like someone so much, you include them in your plans as often as possible.
7. He Is Open About His Feelings
Just as he tries to find out about our demons, he also shares his. The man isn’t scared to open up to you about his fears and struggles. On the contrary, he should trust you enough to even seek advice from you.
He shouldn’t have second thoughts about reaching out to you when his chips are down and he needs a shoulder to cry on or just a listening ear. The man should be comfortable coming to you naked.
Men, we know, are naturally built to man up and chest a lot no matter how heavy the weight of the thing maybe. However, if a man opens up to you about his challenges, struggles, even wins, and plans, it means that he really places you on a high pedestal and wants a serious relationship with you.
8. He Gets Jealous Or Territorial
Jealousy is mostly associated with women but have you seen a guy genuinely jealous? His reaction would make you imagine what will happen when all hell is let loose. Men are wont to hide their feelings but this isn’t so easy for a man who likes you.
When a man truly likes you and he sees you in the company of another man he feels is a threat to him, his jealousy kicks in and the need to mark his territory may just overwhelm him.
Oftentimes, trying to get a guy to come clean about his feelings may work when you get him jealous. At this point, he wouldn’t want to hide what he feels any longer in order to secure his place in your life.
Even without him talking, once you notice his body language changes when you speak to other guys and probably laugh a little louder at their jokes, you know he wants more than friendship.
9. The Man Has No Problem Introducing You To His Family And Friends
So many people may dispute this but it’s actually true in most cases. When a guy introduces you to the circle of friends he talks about the most, it means that you are quite special to him.
Now, it is important to also notice how those friends treat you. If they take time to find out more about you, then they probably see a prospect in you and would want to know if you’re great for their friend.
The same applies to families who drill you to know your intentions for their son. If you meet his friends and family and they don’t bother to engage you in conversations, then you’re most likely not the main one.
10. He Actually Tells You
When a guy opens up and tells you how much he really likes you, you can tell his authenticity. This is the final sign to know that he actually wants you to be his girlfriend.
When he actually opens his mouth and utters those magic words, then there isn’t much to look out for anymore.
We know actions speak louder than words but in some cases, we’d love to hear the words as well. Let us hear the words and watch the action back it up.